Are your habits robbing you of sleep?

Let’s just start off this 3-part sleep series with a simple truth.  Sleep is complicated!
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Sleep is something that is often overlooked as a foundational part or our health and wellness.  Anyone who misses a good night’s sleep can attest to that!  I decided to write a series of articles on this topic for my readers because good quality sleep is not a nice-to-have experience, but literally one that can profoundly affect your health and even your life, no exaggeration, you’ll learn why in this series. 

While I will be focusing on how sleep affects women - the information offered here affects men as well, so do share these articles with people you care about. I will be covering everything I could think of related to sleep, from sheets to sleep-aids.

DAILY BEHAVIORS BECOME HABITS
There is a compelling statistic that I recently heard that really struck me.  Ninety-Five (95) percent of our daily behaviors are habits.  Certainly our sleep experience is shaped by our habits and we have the power to create new habits by understanding the ramifications of our choices.  

Let’s start by reviewing some of the habits that that disrupt our sleep.
 
THE TV IN THE BEDROOM TO HELP YOU SLEEP HABIT 

Full disclosure, personally, this was one of the toughest habits for me to break! I used to
love laying in bed, nice and cozy, to watch a movie or late-night shows.  I had no idea
how much this was contributing to waking up exhausted.

I’ve had clients tell me that this is the only way they can fall asleep.  In fact some of them
would set timers to shut off the TV to ensure that it would go off after they fell asleep.
The problem was that they invariably would wake up one or more times during the night
and there is no way to get restorative sleep with multiple wakings.


USING ELECTRONICS IN THE BEDROOM SLEEP HABIT

Phones, tablets and computers - JUST. SAY. NO! Why? Because the blue light waves cause several problems.  They suppress melatonin (a sleep hormone ) so it makes it harder to get to sleep, stay asleep and it shortens total sleep time. You don’t get into deeper sleep and are likely to have more nighttime awakenings. You are going to wake up tired!  In a later article we will dive deeper into many of the other metabolic disturbances that are like a domino effect on your overall health.

THE STAYING UP LATE FOR "ME TIME" SLEEP HABIT

Come on ladies, you know what I’m talking about!  It’s that magic time of your day when
the family is in bed,  there’s no one asking you to do stuff for them, no phone ringing,
no carpooling, no meetings, you get the picture.  The house is quiet and you can finally
take a deep breath.  Unfortunately, it’s now after midnight and you haven’t quite started winding down, but it might be too late, because now you get a “second wind” and you start to suspect that sleep might just be a waste of time.  Sadly, you have just experienced a stress hormone, cortisol, kicking into gear.  After a short time you feel exhausted, but you can’t turn off your brain - it’s a phenomenon called “tired and wired”, once again your hormones seem to be turning against you.  I don’t mean to exclude men here - but in my experience this is a common scenario for women.

USING YOUR BED AS A PICNIC AND OFFICE SLEEP HABIT
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This can create a kind of confusion around what this space is for. If you become
habituated to using your bed for other than it’s intended use,( primarily sleep), your
habits of working in bed and eating in bed can interfere with your ability to wind down and rest.  Also, when it comes to food, this is usually coupled with watching TV which results in reinforcing two habits that distract from sleep.   

CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR AND CREATE NEW SLEEP HABITS 
Here are some actions that you can take to begin the process of establishing good sleep habits:

• Ditch the TV.  Just move it out of the bedroom. If you want to watch TV, do it in a room designated for that like your living room or family room.  Secondly, turn off the TV about an hour before you want to get to sleep. You can always record all your favorite late-night shows and watch them later.  It’s a blue-light thing.
•  Ban the other electronics from your room too. Charge your phone in another room and keep your computer out too. Read an old-fashioned book. It will actually help to relax you, but pick something that isn’t a page turner!  Another option is to listen to some guided imagery. This can shut out the background chatter in your brain while simultaneously helping you to relax into slumber.  
• Establish a regular bedtime.  The “sweet” spot is about 10:00 pm.  Plan to get into bed at about the same time every night.  You are training your body into a new habit here.  This is when it is helpful to pull out that book, you’ll see that in time, that when you “hit the pillow” you’ll be primed to fall asleep. 
• ​Keep the dining in the dining area.  Again, you want your brain and body to make the proper connections for your intended spaces.  Bedroom for sleep and sex, dining areas for meals and eating.

I always suggest that you start with just one change and work with that, maybe for a week then incorporate another until over time, this becomes your new normal. 

​Sweet Dreams!

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